Wednesday, January 28, 2009

TEN COMMANDMENTS FOR HAPPY MARRIED LIFE

Now that I'm married, I'm trying to look into some inspirational articles that would somehow guide me in my married life... Let me share this one to you guys.

TEN COMMANDMENTS FOR HAPPY MARRIED LIFE
1.
TRUST

2. BUILDING AND MAINTAINING CONFIDENCE OF SECURITY OF EMOTIONAL, SENTIMENTAL AND SPIRITUAL NEEDS WITH CARE AND RESPECT.

3. UNDERSTANDING.

4. ADJUSTMENTS.

5. SEXUAL GRATIFICATION.

6. FULFILLING ONE’S SPECIFIC ACCEPTED ROLES SINCERELY.

7. HELPING FOR SELF-CONFIDENCE AND PERSONALITY DEVELOPMENT.

8. BRINGING-UP THE CHILDREN WITH MORAL, HEALTH, EDUCATIONAL, INTELLECTUAL AND SOCIO-CULTURAL VALUES.

9. COMMITMENT TO: FREE COMMUNICATION, FRANK DISCUSSION, MUTUAL CONSULTATION, TOGETHERNESS, PRIVACY, MUTUALITY, SEXUAL EQALITY, COMPATABILITY, COMPROMISE, ADJUSTABILITY, HONESTY, ADAPTABILITY, SYMPATHY, EMPATHY, SATISFACTION, SATIATION, HAPPINESS, JOYFUL COMPANIONSHIP, RESPECT, SHARING, INTIMACY, CO-OPERATION, CO-ORDINATION, COMPASSION, AND FAIR-LOOKING PRESENTATION OF SELF.

10. ENSURING THE FOLLOWING NOT TO POKE THEIR NOSE WITHIN MARRIAGE: EGOISM, SELFISHNESS, SELF-RESPECT, RIGIDITY, HURTING THE FEELINGS, ARGUMENTS, NEGLET, HELPLESSNESS, HUMILIATION, CRITICISM, CONTRADICTS (CONVINCING IS BETTER THAN CONTRADICTING), OFFENSIVENESS, PROVOKING ACCUSATIONS.

http://www.angelfire.com/folk/marital/10com.htm


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